Old Revisited

Same Horse, but now the boy has become a man. Years ago a very dear person came into our life and allowed my boy to have the experience of a life time with her horse. That horse's name is River. For years, my boy worked with this horse, got to ride the horse, worked in the barns and learned many things. Then, River had to move to Chicago but he has never been forgotten. Today....River is here in Ann Arbor and ............... the young man who was once a boy, was reunited with River. Gives me chills to see.   When I get home today I'm going to dig and see if I can find one of the first pictures of my boy with River.  The comparison will be interesting!

2008

2013

Check In

Almost a year has gone by and I think it is fair to say (more than fair) that I’m not great at keeping up on this blogging thing. I have good intentions when I post, but they sure don’t last long. Well they do, I just don’t do anything about them. This year, like I last posted was a year of adjustments. I’m finding that the first time I’ve lived alone is a-ok!! When I return home at the end of the day ~ amazingly ~ my house looks exactly the same as when I left. If I leave a dish in the sink, it is still there and has not multiplied. If I leave the sink clean, it’s still clean. When I decide on GrapeNuts for dinner, I am happy with that choice and don’t get any ‘ho hum’ about it because, “that’s not dinner.” And the laundry basket doesn’t fill exponentially overnight. I’d say, Life Is Good! The neighbor teased me when I was raking leaves that he’d be I wished the kid still lived with me. I told him, “Nope. I didn’t have to nag anyone for 3 days to get out here to get the work done and when it’s a half assed job, I know it was me.” I’m okay with my own half done job, for some reason I wasn’t when either the boy or ex use to do a half assed job?! Go figure. Don’t get me wrong, I do miss having the boy at home. The beginning was the worst. But I’ve adjusted and there are some positives. And negatives…………he did make me laugh and we did some cool things together. He would grill for us and cooking for one sometimes isn’t easy (like making chili – for 1?!). The boy and I have a new relationship – which has also been interesting to see unfold. And it’s good! Life at work is fine. I’ve graduated another class – a group of 5 terrific young men. All will be missed. Graduation really reminded me how lucky I am to work in a place where building relationships matters. And now that school is out, I not only miss the kids and parents, but also the teaching staff. Again, I’m lucky to work with such wonderful, talented, dedicated people. (not that every day is pie in the sky good – this is real life) Not sure what is on the horizon, but I think the 2nd half of 2013 is going to hold some changes. Things have been smooth, which is always a warning. Things have been stable. And, I’ve gotten the notion that I need to make some improvements. So………………check back in a year (ha ha) and find out what happens. I am going to try to post more often – but I know I say that almost every time I post. We’ll see……………….

Life after 17

Based on my last post, I was holding my breath waiting to see what would happen the day after my son turned 17. Well......on the day he turned 17 he moved out. It was pretty clear that it would happen, but not without some drama. It was emotional and it is likely a day the both of us will remember! Tears, truths, emotions and heart break. I told him when he stepped off the stoop life would change forever, that he should start flapping his wings, and that I knew he could do it. I told him that I had done a good job teaching him and he had learned well. And that I wanted him to make me proud - which I am sure he will do. We both cried, hugged and then he indeed did step off that stoop, walked down the path and never looked back. It's been a week and many emotions have pulsed through me. I have cried some more, gotten angry and moved forward. The day he left I couldn't even go to his room - but now 7 days later his room looks totally different. I have spent countless hours cleaning and changing things around. I'm not done but eventually I will have a dressing room, the big bathroom and a nice exercise room. I'm excited! I have cleaned mold off the floor, scrubbed a disgusting shower, thrown things out, moved things left behind and repeatedly, repeatedly, repeatedly vacuumed up the dog hair (which I think I will never be rid of). My hands are sore and parts of my body ache - but I am pleased. I still have work to do, but I can see the light. Each night I will continue to work. I'm content with the distraction and progress. My new life is going to be amazing, when I get there. For now....it's one day at a time. The child has been in touch daily, via text and we are going to see each other tomorrow. I have given him his space and only answer when he texts me. This will change, but I feel it is important he has his space AND find that there are ramifications to your choices. He will be fine, this I know. I will be fine, this I know. Trust is the key. Staying strong will be important. And just letting things unfold how they are suppose to happen is how it's suppose to be. I need to breathe and............live!

Changes Are Always Happening

Well the last time I posted I seemed to be worried about the end of high school for my son, probably looking forward to the summer months when it's a little quieter here at Clonlara too (where my son graduated and I work). I was a silly girl!!!! Graduation came and went, and in fact my son did graduate - but he refused to participate in graduation. I had two requests at the beginning of his senior year - again silly me, I thought with all the blood, sweat and tears that have gone into educating this boy I had the right to ask for; 1) senior pictures and 2) that he walk at graduation.

I guess I should have guessed when early in the school year he refused senior pictures and I had to steal one (caught him by surprise and snapped a good one), that when it came time to walk across the stage, he wouldn't be there. Exactly what happened - although thankfully I knew ahead of time so it wasn't a surprise. The week of graduation was full. On Monday he got his driver's license, on Wednesday his dad gave him a car for graduation, on Saturday it was graduation (like I said, he didn't attend) and on Sunday he wrapped his car around a tree. No worries, he was not hurt but the car was totaled. Talk about a week from _____. Since that week, this child had bought a used truck - then found out 5 days later the transmission was bad and sold it for junk. Paid to have the clutch fixed on his Jeep, and after 50 miles found out it was in fact not fixed - and now has that vehicle for sale. He had planned to work 3 jobs and do maintenance tanks this summer - he's now only working one job and doing tanks. And amazingly enough.....I still can't get him to take out the trash once a week. Yes, we have gone through all the excuses - he's only 16, he is young, he just finished school and needed a break, yada, yada, yada. His plan now..........moving in with his girlfriend the day after he turns 17. Thank you Michigan law, there isn't a thing I can do about that either. So.....I hold my breath. Thankfully I have some amazing friends and family members who are supporting me, letting me vent when needed, and holding my hand along the way. My mantra is "I've done a good job." He will be fine and it's time for him to learn on his own, I guess (at least that is what everyone is telling me). Things have changed so much and I have finally 'let go' of what I thought it was 'suppose to be like.' Most of the time I am at peace and try not to think about what is to come. As for me..........since life no longer revolves around that child........there will be changes there too. Professionally and personally I'm trying to figure out the next steps. I'm going to be alone for the first time in my life (living wise and responsibilities to others wise) and I want to be happy. But what does that mean???? I think that is a perfect subject for another post :-)

Next is Graduation

Daily I get a reminder in the morning on the way to work how many days it is until graduation. Like I don't know - I'm the principal!! I have a unqiue situation because I ride to work daily with my son, who is a student at the school where I am the principal. And yes, he is a senior suffering from senioritis. Most days I indulge him and just listen to his count down. Some days I do have to smile though - doesn't he realize he is not the only one counting?! Doesn't he realize what it is going to mean to see him walk across that stage and get his dipolma to those around him? His educational path has not been easy, on any of us. We are lucky, he is bright and talented. He is gifted and gifted with learning differences. He is also cocky and stubborn and has never went around the block the short way. School has been no different. So...we are going to celebrate in 38 days! We are going to celebrate many things. And then.....we are going to hold our breath and see what happens next!

Again, Where Does the Time Go???

Seems just a few weeks ago I was posting about solitude, my students were off for the summer adventures and I will likely in the quiet office. Well.....the entire summer has passed, my students and staff are all back inside these walls, and I have no idea where the time has gone?!I was actually going through some of my old blog posts looking for pictures of the library project that B did when we were homeschooling. Now I want to go back to homeschooling!! We did some fun things!!!!!! Many of the pictures with him in them made me smile - such a cute boy. And now.....a young man. Let me give you a little update on my favorite home school student (and one of my favorites in the building). B is a senior - yes a senior. Expected graduation is June 9th. He is currently 16, 6'3" tall and charming as they come - until he opens his mouth. Like most teenagers, he's got a little bit of an attitude. He is 1/3 of the way through drivers ed and bought his own car about 2 months ago. I call it a piece of junk painted red, but he loves her. She's a 1959 Jeep Willys with a 1966 327 corvette engine. When she came home she dripped oil, which has been fixed and I bought B a new front end for his 16th birthday. It is now sitting covered up because the child's line of credit is at the limit and now his baby needs clutch work. Ahhh, the joys of a valuable lesson.

Ain't she pretty?!

Boy will probably get in trouble with this!

Happy Kid!

Learned to drive it on the first day, AND how to push it when there is a bad battery connection and you can't get it started.












So where does the time go???? It goes to having a job, which I frankly still haven't adjusted to and if I worked a 'normal work week' might be a little easier but that is not the job that I have. It goes to finishing raising this boy that lives with me. It goes to laughing, and rushing, and grocery shopping and learning new things. It goes to thinking up new ideas and sometimes just getting through the day because I am dead, butt draggin' tired. I'm grateful that I have a job that I love, a kid that keeps me on my toes and many, many good people in my life. Do I sometimes wish I could slow it down, wish for solitude and some peace - oh yeah!! But I don't even know what that would look like or feel like. Today....which is a Sunday and I'm at work, I'm just glad I can keep doing what I do. Life changes, and so far I've been able to handle changing with it.

Solitude vs. Loneliness

Recently I have had the opportunity to be alone and think – my thoughts wandered to the difference between solitude and loneliness. They are defined as:

Solitude is a state of seclusion or isolation, i.e., lack of contact with people. Short-term solitude is often valued as a time when one may work, think or rest without being disturbed. It may be desired.

sol•i•tude - noun
1. the state of being or living alone; seclusion: to enjoy one's solitude.
2. remoteness from habitations, as of a place; absence of human activity: the solitude of the mountains.

Loneliness is an unpleasant feeling in which a person experiences a strong sense of emptiness. Loneliness has also been described as social pain - a psychological mechanism meant to alert an individual of undesired isolation and motivate her/him to seek social connections.

loneliness – derived from
lone•ly – adjective, -lier, -liest
1. affected with, characterized by, or causing a depressing feeling of being alone; lonesome.
2. destitute of sympathetic or friendly companionship, support, etc.: a lonely exile.

I believe there is a true, and sometimes deeply felt, distinction between solitude and loneliness. For me, solitude is positive. People seek solitude, I seek solitude. My road has changed. For years I was with someone – and now that is gone. For 16 years I have had my child with me almost every day of his life – and sometimes, many times 24 hours of every day we were together. But now he seeks his independence more and more. My boy was gone for 9 days – the longest he has ever been away from me. And I was alone for much of that time. I am okay being alone and on my own.

I have experienced both loneliness and solitude in my life. Several years ago I had a discussion with a friend about the difference, about what it is like to still be alone (or lonely) even when you are with someone or other people. This is the worst kind of loneliness – to be with other people and still feel complete alone and lonely. What is that?! Years and years ago I would have much rather been with someone than to be alone. I filled my time and space with others – not matter the impact. But now, I can be alone and I fit into the comfort of solitude (admittedly at times I’d prefer to be alone – but that is a tolerance issue, and for another post). I have changed and seen the error in my ways.

More changes are to come. My boy will leave soon and make his own way. I’m certain I will miss him, but there will be times when I will be glad for the quiet house, for the solitude that will welcome me when I come home from the craziness of life. I welcome solitude, embrace solitude. What I am afraid of is – will I know when solitude boarders on loneliness? Will I catch those feelings in time, or will it be too late. And when I no longer want to be alone – will I make the same mistakes I have made in the past??? Only time will tell………….

Where Does the Time Go??

Honestly?! I really thought I was going to get better at keeping up my blog. Ha! So now my first year as a principal is coming to an end (the kids are gone and just paperwork is left) and I feel like it's flown by, like I missed it right while it was happening. So many things have changed in such a short time. What took years to build has crumbled, what took years to raise has pushed away, what took years to discover has changed...........and what I have wanted for years is still missing. So if I make more time, will what is missing be found????

I found this poem:

Where did all my time go,
is there any way to know.
It seems days roll by,
hardly time to say hello.
When I was very young,
everything was slow.
I was just thinking,
that was not long ago.
The sun was up early,
now the shadows are here.
The day when fast,
sleeping time is near.
Can’t we slow this down,
it all seems so fast.
If I don’t make more time,
my life will not last.
Okay, I’m in a hurry,
I really have to run.
I’ll keep this poem short,
so other things get done.
–Bob Mutch
Note: I was in a big hurry to go somewhere, so I wrote this short poem quickly in 15 mins. The poem was written in a silly moment, but if you look deep there is a life message there that I have been thinking about.
How about your life, is it going fast.
When it’s all done, what of it will last.
Are you making time, for eternity.
There you will have, lots of time free.

Marathon Cooking Session

The entire afternoon/evening was spent in the kitchen. Y I MISS YOU!!!! It's just not the same, to marathon cook, without you. Please come back!!!! Here's what was accomplished:
- sloppy joes (4 batches worth) all packaged in small packages and frozen, B loves this stuff and it makes for an easy meal when he wants to cook for himself.
- Fire Station Chicken (2 crockpots worth) two meals packaged for us, one for mom and one for the woman at work that we are taking turns cooking for. This is a new recipe, so hopefully we like it.
- Roasted Chicken Lasagna (4 pans worth) three frozen for us and one for the woman I work this. This is an old favorite and will provide us a lot of meals.
- Chicken Salad (1 batch) with the leftover roasted chicken. B loves this in wrappers for lunch meals. And since we pack 6 lunches a week for him, it will be a nice change from what he's been eating.
- Pork Chop ala Orange (4 batches) I frozen two meals, put one up for mom, we ate one for dinner and there is one for work. This is a new recipe and we both loved it. I think it is all in the gravy. Yummy!
- Blueberry muffins (1 batch) - no brainer here. Everybody loves these. Secret is the lemon.
- Cranberry Orange muffins (2 batches) - some frozen for B's breakfast, some for mom, some for the lady at work. They are good too.
- Thai Chicken Wings (1 batch) - these are marinating and we'll throw them on the grill tomorrow night when we get home from work. There's enough for 2 meals.
- Green Chile and Cheese Corn Bread (2 batches) savory item, new recipe. The jury is still out. I wasn't crazy about them, didn't think they were cooked enough. Second batch is still in the oven and should be different. There will be enough for us, mom and the lady at work.
- Steamed BBQ Pork Buns (1 batch) these are one of Bs favorite. There is enough for us and mom.
- Steamed BBQ Chicken Buns (1 batch) never made with bbq chicken, but I'm sure they will be good. Again, froze them all for quick meals.

Needless to say, I'm beat. Figure I should sleep good - but the problem is my knees, ankle and feet are already complaining. Once the last batch of cornbread is out I can finish the dishes (which there are not many because I do them as I go along). I've got a check book to finish and a few other things to do. I figure I'll flop into bed and hope that morning doesn't come too soon.

Y, are you cooking again??? You never mentioned how the cooking on the road went.

Anyway...we'll be eating good in the coming weeks. And with the hours I keep it really does help to have the base of dinner done. Just get home and while it is warming I can make salad, change my clothes and we eat.

Dreams of sweet and savory things!

Saturday Work....

... and I don't mean at the office. It's fall, my favorite season!!!!! With that comes flannel and fleece, but also the work of getting ready for winter. Today, actually last night, we decided that Saturday we would be productive - we chose chores over the Ren. Festival and the BBQ cook off festival (what were we thinkin'?).

Our day started by pulling on the hoodies and heading outside - chair put away, lawn started, leaves blown, generator tested, garage cleaned, patio stuff put away, boat pulled. Ha, funny story about that - it is windy here so there is a pretty good chop on the lake. B decided he'd drive the boat over so with swim trunks and a hoodie on over he headed (cell phone in pocket for a reason i am uncertain). There are two ramps on this lake. You would think 60 degree weather, with a chop, there would be no one around. WRONG!!! The ramp had a back up of trucks/trailers a mile long. So as B sat on the jet ski, texting, we waited our turn.

Anyway....B still has a few things on his chore list to do. I went to the grocery store. Last night I planned a marathon cooking session and it was time to get the ingredients. Tell me again why I went to Meijer on a Saturday?! Oh yea, I work during the week. lol

So now....my counters and kitchen floor are filled with all the things I need to get cooking. Which is exactly what I plan to do. That will take up the rest of my day, for certain.

So what are you doing today????

What the Heck is Internet TV?

As a parent you read, and hear, all about restricting you child's viewing time of television. And I mean the kind of TV viewing that happens on a TV that still has channels, advertisements, a remote control and the screen is still likely to need dusting. You also are warned that too much computer time causes X and too much video game playing causes Y. yada, yada, yada....

I have always kept a pretty close eye on this stuff. B had never been one to watch TV that much, and we don't even have a gaming unit (handheld or otherwise). Since we home schooled and he did not use traditional books for a lot of subjects - he has always spent a fair amount of (supervised) time on the computer. (Which by the way, when you send them off for 6 hours a day to college campus, they can engage in computer screen watching as much as they like - you have very little say.) And now as a teen I think he watches more TV than ever. But that is not what this post is about.

This post is about me learning, yet another new thing this week. A local new 'tv' station approached me this week about advertising with them. I scheduled the appointment to meet with their marketing representative. It didn't take me long to realize I was out of the loop - WAY OUT OF THE LOOP!!! This woman was asking me to advertise on an internet TV superstation (one I will say is well matched to us in terms of their focus is strictly the county I like in - and want my students to come from). But who knew????

Thankfully when i have meetings like this I am able to listen more than talk and I got on this new page quickly and didn't make a fool of myself (too much of a fool of myself). Learning new things....sometimes puts you in that position.

Anyway...if you want to know what I'm talking about (which you probably do because you are way more on the ball than I) check out www.A2YP.TV and see what I learned about this week in this marketing world I am clearly behind in. I'm running to catch up....but B tells me by the time I get 'there' something new will be in the way.

Running to Catch Up

No, I didn't get buried under a pile of office junk when I moved from the cubicle to my office. LOL

But, I do still have a small stack of 'stuff' on the floor that I haven't yet found a place for. I'm thinking by the end of today - what's not gone (put away) I am taking a match to it. LOL

I must say, I have never really cared that I had not had an office. I actually had never given it much thoughts. But....now....I can say, "You can't miss what you've never had." I DO LIKE an office. I like to shut the door when I want to get into something and I don't want any distraction. I like to have scented candles burning and when I come back to my office I am greeted by that pleasure. It makes me feel like I'm doing something nice for myself. I like when someone knocks to come in versus just walking up and starting to talk to me.

So, it's Sunday and I am content sitting in here. The weather is going to be hot and sticky today (so I'm not missing anything outside), the boy is at work (so I would have to be sitting in town anyway), and it's a chance to clear my desk (yeah right, like that is going to happen) before my week starts - which is going to be a very hectic week! It's nice here and it feels good to be productive!

ps - and NO, I have not gotten all the SEO, OMG, ETC....figured out yet. But I'll get there!

SEO,CMS, PPC, CTR, CPC - OMG!!!

Being new to all this website design stuff is making my head spin!!! I come to this job technologically challenged, and then one of the first things I decide we need to do it redesign our website. Somebody slap me!! Thankfully, one of the teachers has some experience and agreed to help (pretty much do it). So I was to give him the content and he was going to execute and we'd work together on the design. Phase one launched, almost a month late, but launched. Now.......
...my teacher is MIA,
...phase II hasn't be completed,
...phase III hasn't started,
...I know I need to worry about SEO,
...I have list upon list of things I want to add to the site,
...wish there was an IT person I could ask,
...and, I am screwed :-)

So...let the learning begin. I'm digging into the web, learning all kinds of new terms, trying to figure things out, testing and looking up acronyms at every turn. This part of my job....not so fun. I need an intern for this - probably a 12 year old techie kid could handle what I need done - all while I am stumbling around.

Experiencing Chicago

I got to Chicago about mid-day yesterday. The walk from Union Station to the Westin seemed longer than it probably was - given it was a humid, 88 degrees. I tried the shady side of the street, but it didn't seem to make any difference. I arrived to find my room was not ready, but they were glad to stow my luggage until I could check in. I attended a few sessions of the EIA conference in the afternoon.



My evening was spent doing a little walking and window shopping on Michigan Avenue - but it was so hot. I returned to the hotel to enjoy a wonderful workout room. Yes, that actual elliptical machine! I didn't realize how much I really missed having an elliptical at my disposal. After my workout and shower - I curled up on a big, puffy white bed to relax. Since I am here alone, I got to pick what TV shows to watch. I played on the computer, read through the conference materials and relaxed from my day filled with firsts.



Today I spent all day at the conference. Some of the sessions were excellent, full of wonderful ideas. A few of the sessions were marginal, and a few were boring. After the sessions I was able to do a little shopping, including stopping at a small cafe/deli/bakery type place called L'Appetito, where I bought some fresh bread, brie and salami. Again today, the heat was oppressive - 'hottest day of the year' the weatherman said. I figured later in the day I could head to Lake Shore Drive - when it was a little cooler. I headed back to the hotel to work out and shower. As soon as I got out of the shower the rain started - so Lake Shore will have to come tomorrow (weather dependant plan). I picniced on my bed, answered emails and went over my notes from the day.

My mind is in full gear thinking about alternative revenue streams, partnerships waiting to be formed between for profit and non-profit organizations (I work for the latter), and I've been formulating my newest "to-do" list. It is actually great to be around like minded individuals. Now with one more morning of sessions - where will I start with all these new thoughts????? That answer will not come tonight, but certainly will reveal itself in the coming days and weeks. Some of my ideas I can go ahead and run with, some I need to do further research/planning, and some I have to run by the executive director. She is going to be surprised, I think, at some of my out of the box thinking!

Now, as I am trying to clear my head, a thunderstorm is raging outside. Weather has never bothered me. But...first of all it's messing up the TV. Secondly, and the most surprising...I have never been 17 floors up in a thunderstorm. It is definitely a different experience!!!!! It seems much closer! Lastly, it keeps making my internet connection disconnect. It won't be long and I will not be able to keep my eyes open much longer. Tomorrow morning I think I have 1 general session and 3 break out sessions to attend. I should be done here by 2pm and my train leaves at 6pm. That gives me a little time to slowly walk back to the station. My plan is....walk along Michigan Avenue and do some more window shopping (or maybe go in). Only hitch will be rain...in which case I will take a cab to the station.

I wish B and mom would have come with me. But it also has been nice to have some alone time, quiet time and some time to focus solely on my job. I feel I haven't completely experienced Chicago - but certainly have had some new experiences. I really want to come back for a vacation.....maybe when it's not so hot!

First Time for Everything

SO...it's only 8:30 in the morning and my day has been filled with firsts. As you read, you are probably going to think, "how can this be?" Yes, I have traveled (to some pretty great places too), but I have never taken the train to Chicago (yes, I've been to Chicago). I thought about this as I was waiting to board the train. I stood outside the station surrounded by a variety of people - families, business people, those with cameras and white socks, couples in love, teenagers texting, girlfriends gabbing, and me.....I thought, how can I be almost 45 and never have ridden the train from AA to Chicago, especially when I have lived in the AA area for over 12 years? How did this happen???? Then that led me to thoughts of all the things I haven't done - but still want to. Lost in those thoughts, the waiting time passed quickly and the sound of the train whistle brought me back to reality. The reality that today will be filled with firsts.

- First train trip to Chicago
- First educational industry conference
- First time to Chicago alone
- First time to a conference alone
- First time I've gone to Chicago and wished B was with me
- First time hooked to the internet while traveling (the actual movement of traveling)

And it's only 8:45....how many more firsts will come as my day unfolds???? Here I sit, grateful for my air card and the technology available that I can blog, email and yak with friends as I travel (gone are the days of having to read the paper and drink crappy coffee - although I don't see a Starbucks on here, lol)

I also will return to my thoughts of what is on my list of things I've yet to do in life (my bucket list) - it's a great way to pass the time. I am also anticipating getting to Chicago, checking into the Westin, and heading to my first session. My day will end with some shopping on Michigan Avenue, dinner, working out and then getting all comfy on a big puffy bed to watch TV (and probably be on the computer again).

It's good to be employed, one because I need a job and the money, but also because my job has opened this door to a new experience. Let the learning and enjoying begin!

Looking For Marketing Resouces

Has anybody got a copy of the following that they would let me borrow or buy from them?
I'm trying to get up to speed on selling something I've never sold before. In the past I have always held jobs where I was selling 'something' - a product or service, something that people could see and touch. BUT....in this job, it's an idea, a philosophy - something they have to experience to actually know what it is. And yes, I work for a non-profit, which I also have never done before. (those that know me well, don't roll your eyes - you know I'm money motivated)

So these books have been recommended to me:
Strategic Marketing for Non-Profit Organizations
Marketing Workbook for Nonprofit Organizations
Successful Marketing Strategies for Nonprofit Organizations
The Nonprofit Marketing Guide

OR....if you have any resource that I should read or get my hands on - I am open to ANY suggestions and/or advice!!! Just trying to get a handle, strong hold, and my feet on the ground under me.

Doesn't Take Long to Take its Toll

So I've had my new car just over 3 months - and this is what the odometer looks like. YIKES. And now you know why I traded by big ole' SUV in for this crappy, gas efficient Malibu. Yes, I miss my truck - but NO, I do not miss the $100 per pump gas bill. This is also the price (in mileage) I pay for us to live in a safe, comfortable, familiar place. And that my friends, is worth EVERY penny spent and 'missed truck' emotion I feel. And I could have it much worse, I am aware of that.

No complaining, just a reality check. Now.....if I could just figure out a money making opportunity to do while I'm driving all these miles.

Biggest advantage - much of these miles are spent in pretty good conversation with B. Don't get me wrong we have our days, and sometimes on our early morning drives he's asleep (which means I listen to what I want on the radio) - but we have shares some interesting topics and he has shared his, all knowing (lol) opinions. Can't beat that as quality time with a teenager - plus he's afraid to bail out at 80 mph on the highway, so he's a captive audience - and yes, that means we've had some of 'those' conversations in the car too!

Takes a Family

It takes a family to do my job. Actually, since B sometimes comes to campus with me, he got put to work today. He's fixing the holes that the woodpecker makes in the side of the school building. There are a few projects here that need to be done, and since B works cheap (because his momma is a slave driver) he is going to work on them over the summer. Price you pay for having a mom who is a campus administrator and the fact that you won't stay alone. Those of you who worry, he is only here 1 day a week with me. Other days he is working at the AACC as a grounds keeper and hanging out at my parent's house or he's over on the WCC campus finishing up his photography classes.

Anyway....it's Friday and I have a few things to do here, then we are headed out so I can get some marketing materials out in the community, and then a fund raising lunch (next topic for blogging).

DON'T BLINK!

There is a country artist, Kenny Chesney, that sings a song titled "Don't Blink." The words could not be more true in today's society! Since my last post, which was only 4 days ago, my job title has been changed and a new job added. You are now reading from the Campus Administrator/Marketing Director. So...everything you've read is still true, but now add in the daily administrative duties of the campus programs. YAHOO - I couldn't be more excited!!! Basically it means I am still focusing on selling my school and enrolling students, but now I am also the right hand to the executive director and help in the daily operations of the school. Thankfully work with a great group of people - strong professionals. There is a proven vision for us to follow. Now we just need to all get on the path together and go, Go, GO!

With added responsibilities comes the added juggle of work schedules, driving schedules, and demands of my time. Unfortunately I suck at that sort of stuff - so it will take some adjustment. And...since every semester B's schedule changes, we hardly have time to settle into a new routine before we have to change things. I'd like to think I am preparing him to handle adversity and change - but sometimes I think it is just a huge exercise in frustration - which I guess in itself is not a bad thing to know how to handle.

Wish me luck, because off I go.....into my new position. First decision the executive director and I made immediately following my promotion is - I would attend an educational industry (EIA) conference in Chicago - in just 2 weeks. I love Chicago, so that's a great first perk to the new job. Now to put the schedule (both personal and professional) in place, arrange for transportation, make reservations, etc. See, I'm catching into these administrative duties already!!! lol

CAREER FOUND ME

So....in January 2010 I returned to the professional workforce as the Campus Marketing Director for a small, private school in Ann Arbor. Where I turn on my computer daily is - Clonlara Campus School.

Let me tell you about ADJUSTMENTS!!!! Being out of the workforce for nearly 15 years, and away from the marketing business for nearly 20 - oh boy! So many things, with the invent of the web, social networking, multi-media, etc. have changed. It is no longer as simple as writing an ad for your target market, running the ad, answering the phone and following up on leads!! Now my office phone rings to my cell when I'm not at the desk, I have instant chat that I answer when people visit my website, I monitor all our social media sites, and that's just in the first hour of the day. LOL

But...I LOVE MY JOB!!!! My biggest charge is to increase enrollment. When the board hired me, I agreed to climb a HUGE mountain - I was asked to increase their enrollment by 30% in 9 months, and then another 30% in the second year. CHALLENGE, which I have run in front of from the first day I started. The first 6 months I have been with Clonlara I registered 6 new students. A few people have kidded me about being able to keep up this pace and about coming out of the gate so strong. I can only hope that this rate continues, or increases.

The other parts of my job include keeping my current families happy, increasing our presence in the AA community, networking, and continually 'putting us out there.' I have been out beating the pavement. I have met with several other administrators, trying to make connections with program coordinators who's programs end at certain grades (considering Clonlara is a K-12 school I am a natural choice for some families when the program their child is in ends at 6th grade.) I am always, always, always selling!!!

The job gives me a chance to mix my marketing background with my passion that families should have choices when deciding on their child's education. I work in no better community for there to be alternative choices - and yes, the school I work for is an alternative learning environment. This strong passion came to me when, about 6 years ago, I had to take B out of school. We even toured Clonlara to see if it was a good educational match for him. Our educational road has not been easy, but without alternative choices we would have been sunk.

So...that's what I am doing these days (at least most days). Plus still juggling B's schedule, time with family and friends, and running the household. And much of the time I feel like I'm not very good at the balancing act! But, eventually I will get the hang of it. Thankfully, I am loving what I'm doing!!!